
What Do You Really Mean?
Every day in my role as an executive speech coach and the creator of FrippVT, I always say, “Specificity builds credibility.”
I listen to intelligent engineers, experienced leaders, and true experts in every field and find that too many are sloppy speakers. If you want to build your credibility, listen to what you say.
Here is a simple solution. You need to recognize both your strengths and areas to improve.
You Will Not Improve What You Are Not Aware Of
Record casual conversations and your side of a phone call or when you are leading a meeting. If you are like most of my clients and you will find out how often you use sloppy and not specific language.
Even my most intelligent clients fall into the trap of using the word stuff.
Stuff is rubbish. What do you really mean? At Thanksgiving and Christmas, I will give you a break if you are talking about the turkey.
Of course, in everyday conversation we don’t normally prepare what we’re going to say – so, it can feel natural to be non-specific. However, I guarantee that your important conversations and presentations will be much better if you examine your current speaking habits and then consciously build specificity into your everyday language.
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