Accent Reduction is a controversial subject. Some people believe that having an accent reflects one’s cultural and ethnic heritage and that by changing it we are being untrue or disrespectful to our ancestors or countries of origin. Accents can also be pleasant to listen to and can add “flair” or “allure” to the individual. Imagine a massage therapist with a Hungarian accent or a scientist with a German accent. The fact remains that people stereotype others and make judgments based on accent, whether positive or negative.

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Rebecca Linquist helps Eugen Roman, lose his Romanian accent at her Campbell office as reported to Patrick Tehan of the San Jose Mercury News/MCT

SAN JOSE, Calif.—Two decades after emigrating from Taiwan, Sean Chang’s accent was a barrier to friendships with Americans. Native English-speakers found it too much work when conversation went beyond small talk, said the electrical engineer from San Jose.

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Books 
Bayan, Richard, Words that Sell, Contemporary Books, 1984
Bedrosian, Margaret, Speak Like a Pro, Wiley, 1987
Carnegie,Dale, The Quick and Easy Way to Effective Speaking, Pocket Books, 1977
Chan-Herur, K.C., Communicating with Customers Around the World, AuMonde International, 1994
Dawson, Roger, The Secrets of Power Persuasion, Prentice Hall, 1992
Holliday, Micki, Secrets of Power Presentations, Career Press, 1999
Klepper, Michael, I’d Rather Die Than Give a Speech!, Irwin
Kushner, Malcom, Successful Presentations for Dummies, IDG Books, 1996
Nice, Shirley, Speaking for Impact, Allyn and Bacon, 1999
Noonan, Peggy, Simply Speaking, Harper Collin1998
Robbins, Jo, High-Impact Presentations, Wiley, 1997
Urs Bender, Peter, Secrets of Power Presentations, The Achievement Group, 1991
Wilder, Claudyne and Fine, David, Point, Click & Wow!, Pfeiffer and Company

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One of my good friends and associates is  Simma Lieberman known as "The Inclusionist." Simma creates workplaces where people love to do their best work and customers love to do business Simma Lieberman Associates. We can all benefit from her advice. Enjoy…

Simma's Ten Tips to Utilize Employee Genius

If you want to recruit, retain and leverage the skills and talents of brilliant employees, you need to provide a workplace where people love to come to work.  Employers that treat their employees like recalcitrant children, micromanage and demonstrate their distrust of them will not only lose good people to their competition but will eventually end up miserable, broke and obsolete. If your employees enjoy what they do and feel part of a workplace community, they will be more enthusiastic, creative and empowered to be more successful.

Don't wait until your best people leave before you assess your strengths, and challenges and realize you need to make some attitude and cultural changes. 

Here are some ways you can start now:

   1. Review your mission, vision and values. There is a strong probability that you have become complacent due to the economic turmoil and have reduced  your line of sight.
   2. Renew your passion for your business and what  you do, and allow others to see it. Passion can be contagious and you want everyone else in your organization to feel it. Recognize when your employees are passionate about what they do.
   3. Take an interest in your employees beyond their title and function. Talk to them about their lives after work and find new ways to connect and develop relationships with them.
   4. Give employees opportunities to contribute and use their talents in new ways and other areas of work. Be on the look-out for hidden genius or unseen skills.
   5. Lay-out problems and challenges and ask for solutions. Acknowledge and reward ideas that solve those problems and/or move your organization forward.
   6. Create programs and processes to discover high potential employees at all levels of your organization who may not have been visible or did not fit your standard profile.
   7. Encourage risk taking and reward people who take failures and turn them into successes. Resist the temptation to micromanage. The need to micromanage is a result of your insecurity, not their incompetence.
   8. Develop systems of accountability at all levels and use those systems continuously. Ask your employees what they need in order to be more successful.
   9. If you find yourself getting cynical or impatient, take a break. Go to a movie, read a book, or take a walk.
  10. List what you appreciate about your overall business, and customers and specific employees.

 

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Biggest Lies in Business : #3

Time for the third in our series of the "Seven Biggest Lies in Business" – our ongoing series here in the UCE-zine — moving you to enhance and alter your perceptions of what is true…and what isn't…in today's dynamically changing business world.

This one applies if you are an entrepreneur, executive, HR official, or manager of any type:

Lie #3: We Cannot Keep/Get Good People

Of course you can. You just haven't been willing to engage in the kind of organizational or personal behavior that secures it.

Imagine for a moment that you are Dr. Bob Brockelman, driving a snowy road on a Midwestern winter's day to a university campus to recruit prospective employees to work with you at your $110 BILLION company.

That may sound like it is no problem if you're running a hip and progressive high-tech company, working to hire all the good people you can acquire. That is, until you realize that Dr. Brockelman's company – competing for top talent against the GE's and Microsoft's of the world – is the Farm Credit Bank of Wichita, Kansas. You are asking soon-to-be college or business school graduates to forego the offer from Proctor & Gamble and instead head to Hastings, Nebraska to begin your career.

"The silly thing," says Dr. Brockelman, "is that it's really pretty easy. The problem for most companies is that they've told each other this lie that it's impossible to get and keep great people for so long that they simply aren't doing what it takes to make it happen."

In fact, they are so good at it, Brockelman and Farm Credit Bank of Wichita have reduced turnover to a miniscule (and unheard-of) 3%. Within this lie, "We Cannot Get/Keep Good People," are three erroneous assumptions many of us make —

1) "Money is the only motivator of employees"

There's a major problem with believing this: Every major study proves it isn't the case. Employees want to be paid comparably with those in similar work situations. However, this belief is a mere cop-out by those managers unwilling to confront other motivators. It's easier for us to believe we aren't getting what we want from our employees because we aren't paying them well enough – as opposed to thinking it might be because we aren't managing them well enough.

2) "The (fill in this blank with any age group except the one to which you belong) Generation has no loyalty and a horrible work ethic."

Wrong. However, different generations have different standards of loyalty and differing responses to varied leadership styles. You just have to learn how to appeal to the loyalty of the different generations and what motivates each generational group. If you need more on this topic, check out information from my friend and colleague, Eric Chester, CSP.

3) "We just train them and then they go work for someone else."

There are two problems with this statement:

a. First, why should they stay if all your organization is providing is training — and not opportunity after the training has concluded? Education that precedes a lack of opportunity to apply what is learned breeds frustration.
b. Second, the most terrible approach isn't training them and they leave – as my good friend, Jim Cathcart, CSP, CPAE says, the worst thing is to NOT train them and they STAY!

"Nearly 100 percent of the top-performing key people have the souls of entrepreneurs."
Brian Whitlock, "Modern Machine Shop", January 2006

It is NOT impossible to acquire and retain good people. The fundamental problem is that managers are better trained and emotionally equipped to make investments in R&D, capital improvements and better operating procedures instead of people.

What will YOU do so that you obtain and retain your best people – so they can help you create Ultimate Customer Experiences?

Scott McKain

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“If you roll out the red carpet for a billionaire, they won’t even notice it. If you roll out the red carpet for a millionaire, they expect it. If you roll out the red carpet for a thousandaire, they appreciate it. If you roll out the red carpet for a hundredaire, they tell everybody they know.” –Patricia Fripp

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These days I am delivering more and more Webinars. My guru is Tom Drews the Fripp Associate who is one of the country’s leading experts in Public Speaking using Webinars. One of Tom’s unique ideas is to use visuals to communicate information before the Webinar starts. An excellent and little utilized technique called “looping” can help prepare your participants for the webinar. “Choose a series of ten slides that automatically ‘loop’ while people are logging in. Provide colleagues with start times, direction for downloading resources, speaker information, upcoming meeting dates and other relevant content. The loop will keep everyone on target and engaged, regardless of when they log in.”

To prepare for your next webinar ask yourself these four questions.

1. “What is my key message?” Start by creating one sentence or premise that sums up your entire forty-five minute presentation. This will help you clarify your objective.
2. “Why would an audience care about this content?” Feeding audience facts and figures won’t make them any more interested in what you have to say. Be sure you explain why the content will be important to them.
3. “What is essential to my presentation? It’s better to say less and have people grasp your information than have them listen all day and hope their eyes aren’t glazing over. Webinars usually run no longer than an hour.
4. “What elements can I incorporate that will entertain, as well as inform?” Use pictures, stories and slides that are educational, informational and fun.

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Giving a Speech? 10 Tips for Public Speaking

1. Write your own introduction. Probably someone else is going to introduce you. Write the words yourself, making it brief, pertinent, and emphasizing your credentials.

2. Know your audience. Make sure you know exactly who is going to be in the audience, why they are there, and why they invited you to speak.

3. Check the setting. Go to the facility early to make sure you’re comfortable in the surroundings. Check the microphone, lighting, audio/visual equipment, and any other factors that may affect your performance. Meet the audience members as they arrive, this is a great way to build rapport and a captive audience.

4. Start with a bang. The first thirty seconds have the most impact. Don’t waste these precious seconds with “Ladies and Gentlemen” or a weather report. Come out punching with a startling statement, quote, or story.

5. Use humor with caution. Don’t start with a joke unless you are absolutely brilliant at it. If you bomb, you’re going to lose any credibility you have. And if your only humorous material is at the beginning, the audience will be disappointed when you become serious.

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From Linda Larsen’s YouTube Channel: “Humorist, Linda Larsen, describes (in exacting, and hilarious detail) how she always wanted to be like the amazing, incomparable, talented speaker, Patricia Fripp.”

For more about Linda Larsen visit: http://www.lindalarsen.com

Visit https://fripp.com for CDs, DVDs and books for professional speakers, and wonderful free articles on speaking professionally.

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This text and these images are excerpted from my brother’s diary during a recent visit with my family in England to record an oral history from my Uncle Bill “Alfie” Fripp, Britain’s oldest surviving and longest serving POW of WWII.

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Robert Fripp’s Diary – Tuesday 1st September, 2009

09.03 – DGM HQ.

During the sitting, a sense of a different approach to a particular morning exercise.

The sun is shining. The car is at the front of the building, ready to carry me off to adventures of the day, adventures of the Fripp Family kind with Sister Patricia & Uncle Bill.

20.03    Leaving c. 09.10 for Wimborne. On the way, an insight into using the tetrad in a different way to that I conventionally employ.

Collecting the Sistery Person who is staying with pals at Gravel Hill, Merley, just along from where the Fripp family lived between c. 1949–1954; and then to Southbourne & Uncle Bill. The aim in Patricia coming home is for us to film & record Uncle’s life story. Recently, Alfie Fripp has become the most famous Fripp in the family, and deservedly so. The recent media coverage on Uncle relates to the 65th. Anniversary of the Great Escape from Stalag Luft III.

Uncle Bill was well prepared I…

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Uncle Bill, aka Squadron Leader Alfie Fripp (RAF Retd.) is the oldest surviving & longest serving British POW. He now represents not only the Fripp family, but his generation of service people.

Leaving Southbourne c. 15.30, returning Sistery to her pals on Gravel Hill, arriving back at DGM HQ c. 17.50 with an overfull inbox.

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Thank you Brother, for lending me your photos and diary entries!

To learn more about my brother, legendary guitarist Robert Fripp visit his websites: http://www.dgmlive.com or http://robertfrippspeaks.com

 

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