When you open your presentation, you have just thirty seconds to command your audience’s attention.

Don’t waste your opening words. Prepare a winning opening and give it extra attention as you rehearse your presentation.

A relevant and compelling quote is one way to open a presentation and engage your audience. General Eisenhower said, “Leadership is the ability to decide what has to be done and then to get people to want to do it.” When I talk on leadership, I often begin with that quote. I’m also a believer in quoting others besides dead white men­­––although many of them have made wonderful, inspiring, and educational comments.

Consider quoting live individuals. When I’m talking about getting and keeping customers, I say, “As Bill Gates said, ‘When you lose a customer, you lose two ways. First, you don’t get their money. And second, your competitor does.’” I pantomime stabbing myself in the heart, which usually gets a laugh.

Quotes can be both informative and surprising.

As the great philosopher, Raquel Welch said, “Style is being yourself, but on purpose.”

I add, “Every time you stand up to address an audience, you have to be yourself, but slightly larger than life. In other words, on purpose.”

Relate to your audience.

A great source for quotes is the very audience you are addressing or people they are familiar with.

At a four-day Texas Instruments conference, I told the audience, “I’m here to tell you how to future-proof your careers.” Two days earlier, I had heard their chairman use the phrase “future-proof” when discussing their strategy and the results they expect for the company.

He said, “Our strategy is to future-proof the shareholders’ investment.” I borrowed his words to connect with the audience, as they were his associates, not investors. The phrase already had the company stamp of approval. What made that engagement a great success was the fact I quoted every single person who had spoken on the program before me over the prior three days.

Any important or recent quote related to the industry or organization you are addressing can get you immediate attention and establish a connection between you and your listeners. I often quote something from my client’s most recent corporate report.

Clients tell me, “We’re so glad you quoted our chairman. We always send the report to our associates, and we don’t think they ever read it.”

Interesting quotes can be used throughout your talk.

Unfortunately, speakers often go with predictable quotes from sports stars, writers, texts, and celebrities. Don’t bore your audience with familiar and tired quotes.

Get creative. Get ready to take notes. Make a list from your own sources as you ask yourself, “What quote, memorable saying, keen insight, or witticism can I take from…”

My father, mother, siblings, grandmother, grandfather?

My teacher or coach?

My first boss or manager who inspired me?

My successful or even brilliant clients?

Myself?!!

Here are some of my responses to this exercise that you may use if you like­­––just give me credit!

From my father, A. H. Fripp:

“Don’t concentrate on making a lot of money, but rather concentrate on becoming the type of person people want to do business with, and you most likely will make a lot of money.”

From my mother, Edie Fripp:

“Of course, it is the inner you that counts, but dress up and look good so you can attract people so they can find out how nice you are, how smart you are, and how valuable you can be to them.”

From my brother, the legendary guitarist, Robert Fripp:

“Discipline is not an end in itself, but a means to an end.”

From my client, the brilliant businessman, Manny Lozano:

“Keep promoting––even when your appointment calendar is full. You need to resell to the clients you already have that this is still the place they want to come.”

A personal favorite from Jerry Seinfeld:

“I will spend an hour editing an eight-word sentence into five.”

From me, Patricia Fripp:

“All I ever wanted in business is an unfair advantage.”

“Don’t celebrate closing a sale, celebrate opening a relationship.”

“The answer is no if you don’t ask.”

When your quotes are new to your audience, your entire message will sound fresh and original.

For hundreds of Patricia Fripp and family Frippicisms that you can use in your speeches, articles, PowerPoint, and tweets––as long as full credit is given. www.fripp.com/about-patricia-fripp/frippicisms/

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Executive Speech Coach and Hall of Fame Keynote Speaker Patricia Fripp works with individuals and companies who realize that powerful, persuasive presentation skills give them a competitive edge.

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Shep Hyken is the host of Be Amazing Or Go Home. Enjoy his interview with Patricia Fripp.

Memorable messages are now more important than ever, especially in today’s virtual world. What techniques can lead you to the results that you want? Patricia Fripp is one of the world’s foremost speech coaches working with executives from the Fortune 100 and the top professional speakers on how to make more powerful presentations, and Patricia joins us now in the studio to talk about how to get amazing results from your next presentation. Welcome to Be Amazing  Or Go Home.

Shep Hyken: I’ve got a number of questions, first of all, yes, you are the speech coach to the stars, both in the corporate world as well as the professional speaking world. Hall of Fame speakers, speakers that have won awards have come to you to get their coaching, … including myself, I’m a proud client. I hope I’ve done you good service. Let’s begin with this.

Why are good presentation skills so important to business?

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Patricia Fripp on PBS Side by Side with Nido Qubein

Recently, I had the honor to be a guest on the PBS show Side by Side with Nido Qubein.

Dr. Qubein is the President of High Point University, a great speaker, corporate advisor, author, and past president of the National Speakers Association. He asked me, “Can anyone become a good speaker?” “Why do so many fear public speaking?” “What is important to know about putting together a speech?”

When you have 25 minutes you can listen to my answers.

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In a recent interview, I was asked, “What advice do you have for virtual meetings?

I have been coaching people virtually for at least 10 years. Even before Zoom was invented, I had my own virtual studio.

Although I still speak professionally, my major business now is helping other people with their presentations, whether they are executives, salespersons, engineers for technology companies, or other successful speakers and experts.

Many of my large Silicon Valley clients engage me to prepare their technical experts to speak at their customer conferences. Last year and this, they are virtual. In future years, I predict they will have both online and in-person conferences.

Patricia Fripp interviewed on how you enjoy and win in virtual presentations.

Here is my advice.

If you do not understand the technology, nothing else works. Certainly, Zoom is a popular platform; learn how to use it. You must up your game. It’s perfectly fine to work from your office, but I advise my clients to straighten out all the books on their bookshelves. It might be a bit busy, however, you need to make it tidy,

Everything we do adds to or detracts from our message.

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Patricia Fripp introducing a guest speaker.

The purpose of a speaker’s introduction is to establish their credentials, to create interest from the audience, and often to sell the importance of the subject to that audience at that time.

Recently at a client’s conference, one of my roles and responsibilities was to introduce other speakers, all of whom I had recommended. A couple of them spoke multiple times to the same audience.

The toughest slot of the day is that of the concluding speaker before the cocktail party and buffet at the hotel’s trendy nightclub.

Imagine sitting in the audience in a large ballroom in a fabulous Las Vegas hotel. You have been locked at home for almost two years. Not far outside the ballroom door are shops, shows, eateries, bars, spas, slot machines, and games of chance. Even walking to your comfortable hotel room is an adventure for watching exotic-looking people you do not see in Iowa. It is 4 pm and you have been in the ballroom since 8 am.

My introduction of the concluding speaker had to keep them in their chairs long enough for the speaker to engage them. I began,

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I introduced my long-time friend, Nacole Schapiro before her speech to the Golden Gate Breakfast Club. Although she is a professional keynote speaker who often presents on negotiation and change,

I knew our group would love to hear her personal story about growing up under communism.

Her family lived in fear that they would be shot if it were discovered that every night they would go into their basement and read a book about America.

Every Sunday her mother would take her young children on a long walk toward Austria.

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There is nothing more exciting for an executive speech coach than to help craft the words of a well-intentioned leader who has an exciting message to deliver and is committed to the collaborative process.

Finding Opportunity in Adversity – A Timely Message

Delivered by Tabassum Zalotrawala, Chief Development Officer, Chipotle


Finding Opportunity in Adversity

Growing up in Muscat, Oman, my brother and I were always enthralled by my father’s stories of his journey from Mumbai to Oman.

Imagine how he felt at age 20, stepping onto a boat to make the arduous seven-day voyage to Oman. He arrived in a country that had no real roads or electricity and began the adventure of creating a new life.

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Patricia Fripp can help you drive more sales by perfecting your important sales conversations.

Are you confident your sales presentations are more consistently compelling than your competition’s?

When I work with sales teams to help drive more business, we look at every communication in the sales process.

What I have observed is that when several sales team members deliver formal presentations to the prospect, they miss out on a couple of valuable opportunities.

When you master the subtleties of delivering a group presentation you will gain a competitive edge.

Here is a credibility-building tactic that is far too often overlooked.

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Success: 3 Frippicisms at a Time

One. Make short-term decisions that will help your long-term goals. Ask yourself, “Will my time and financial investments position me and my business for where I want to be in 5 years?”

Consider the timeline of your weekly activity. Are you learning, improving, staying connected with past clients, and taking time to refresh yourself?

Frippicism: “Tell me what you want, show me one week of your life, and we will both know if you will achieve it.”

Two. Although it is always important to drive new business, don’t forget to keep in touch with past clients and prospects. Call 5 past, happy clients on a regular basis. Your goal is to leave the most interesting voicemail they will receive. Try this type of message: “Hello, John. This is Patricia Fripp. I never get tired of talking about what fun we had at your last sales meeting. When you have time, I would like to hear about the results. Let me know if you are interested and when it would be convenient. I will send an email reminding you of my business and cell numbers. Hope this message finds you happy and healthy.”

Frippicism: “It is not your customer’s or prospect’s job to remember you. It is your obligation and responsibility to make sure they do not forget you.”

Three. Your promotion has to be ongoing, consistent, and relentless. You start and do not stop. Revisit, refocus, and rescript what you say about yourself and your business. When you have finished a successful project or made a great sale, ask your customers what they think. Some of your best advertising is promoting with their comments.

Frippicism: “Life is a series of sales situations. Every day you sell yourself, your company, your products, and your services.”

“Back in 2018, we invited you to help us with an important sales presentation, which we won. You will be as excited to know, that it continues to reap dividends! Last year, we were awarded $1.6 million in business with them.  We just received a $2.8 million order from them already this year and it is still January. Your advice and coaching are awesome. What an ROI!”  Michael E. Stryczek, President & CEO, AB&R® (American Barcode and RFID)

“When I won an essay contest and accept my award of $500,000.00 the expectations for my acceptance speech were high. There is only one person I wanted to help me with my speech. Patricia Fripp. For twenty years I have been attending National Speakers Association conferences with my wife Janelle Barlow, Ph.D. I learned more about speaking from working on this speech with Patricia Fripp than in the prior twenty years. Her suggestions and guidance were invaluable.” Jeffrey Mishlove, Ph.D., is the host of the New Thinking Allowed channel on YouTube. He is the author of The Roots of Consciousness, Psi Development Systems, and The PK Man. Between 1986 and 2002 he hosted and co-produced the original Thinking Allowed public television series. 

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… and then I Danced with a Billionaire

Jeffrey Mishlove delivered his acceptance speech after winning the essay contest. His prize, $500,000

Robert Bigelow asked, “Can we survive death?”

He offered a reward of more than $1 million to anyone who could help him answer that question. Most of us would be interested in the answer. Mr. Bigelow, however, is not just anyone or just any 76-year-old mourning his wife and confronting his own mortality. He’s a maverick Las Vegas real estate and aerospace mogul with billionaire allure and the resources to fund his restless curiosity, embracing outer and inner space, UFOs, and the spirit realm.

Mr. Bigelow believes we can. The owner of Bigelow Aerospace and Budget Suites of America is not easily put off. He amassed a fortune to pursue his interests. That included the designing and building of inflatable astronaut habitats for NASA, like his soft-sided expandable activity module called BEAM attached to the International Space Station.

Can you imagine my excitement to learn that the speech Jeffrey Mishlove and I collaborated on won a Cicero Speechwriters Award from the Professional Speechwriters Association in the category of acceptance speeches?

2022 Cicero Speechwriting Award

An Exploration of Life After Death

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