When you think of NSA legends, you think of Patricia Fripp.
For Fripp's story is the sort of stuff legends are made of,
the story of an twenty-year-old who took a boat to New York
and a Trailways bus to California seeking fame and fortune.
It is the story of a young woman with a strong work ethic
and $500 in cash who worked cutting heads of hair while everyone
in the salon took breaks. And, it is the story of a woman
still wonders how her life might have turned out differently
had her boss Jay Sebring not been murdered by Charles Manson
and his gang of crazies.
Fripp is a legend for all that, and because she is a mysterious
and powerful woman who enjoys her own company and goes her
own way. Her extraordinary success can be explained easily
once you know her: she works hard, harder than most of us
ever will. She has a laser beam sort of intelligence that
cuts directly to the heart of matters in a practical, no-nonsense
way. Charmingly, she also has a wry wit, as illustrated when
she moans halfheartedly that if she had had $450 less dollars
and couldn't speak English, she would be as successful today
as Nido Qubein.
"The thing about this business," she explains, "Is that
we can design it the way we want. I always wanted to make
a comfortable living having a good time. I never wanted more
than one full-time employee. Because I am single by choice
the only money I spend is on me and my business. The only
teeth I pay to have fixed are mine. I live my life as what
my brother would call a 'small mobile intelligence unit.'
And being an entrepreneur, I don't particularly want someone
to tell me how to run my life and business."
All of which explains why Fripp has only come lately to
the idea of partnering with other people, a recent revelation
that has added new dimensions to her speaking business. She
calls it "the fun of collaboration," or what happens when
two small mobile intelligence units get together for group
projects, still maintaining their unique identities.
"There are two types of collaboration," she continues, "the
first being a meeting of like minds or talent for fun, education
and/or profit." Here she points to one of the one of the most
successful collaborations in the speaking world, Platform
Professionals. This group consists of humorists, Jeanne Robertson,
Robert Henry, Al Walker and Doc Blakely. They market to each
other's clients saying if you loved this humorous banquet
speaker, you'll love the rest of us, thereby offering talent
to a client for the next three years.
Another successful group is Speakers Roundtable of which
Fripp is a member. "We're 20 speakers, many past NSA presidents
(such as Fripp) who get together one or twice a year to discuss
the business, enjoy camaraderie, share leads and marketing
idea, write a couple of books together and generate another
audio program.
The hallmark of this type of collaboration is an equal caliber
of professionalism with all members working at nearly the
same fee level.
"The second part of my discussion," she continues, "is collaboration
with like minds/talent/goals." A specialized segment of this,
collaboration with opposites, represents the newest discovery
by Fripp as a pleasurable way to expand her business and her
knowledge.
As she explains, her recent Odd
Couple Seminar work with Alan Weiss didn't begin as a
big strategic move She and Weiss were appreciative of each
others' talents but weren't friends. Their speakers' education
seminars started when Fripp sent Weiss an e-mail as he was
on his way to do a consulting seminar in San Francisco, her
home base, saying, "Sorry I will miss it." Weiss e- mailed
back, "We should do a seminar together."
Fripp responded, "I will organize it." There are many differences
that make up the Odd Couple® Seminar's presenters, such
as transportation preferences...
When Fripp picked up Weiss at the airport in her '88 Honda,
the sparks flew.
"I normally don't even talk to people who drive Hondas,"
said Weiss.
"Well, I probably have as much money wrapped up in my wardrobe
and hats as you do your Ferrari," fired back Fripp.
Their synergy and conflict brings energy to the stage. Fripp
explains, "We basically agree on values and on business. We
stress our differences to teach our audiences, because there
is no one way to do your business."
Yet, she does add one other piece of pertinent advice. "Look
at what's important to you--" says Fripp. "To me, that is
fun, education and profit. Education leads to profit if you
use it right."
But that's not all that's important to Fripp. Her voice
catches as she speaks about the recent death of Marianna Nunes,
a California NSA member who died the week of her 50th birthday.
Fripp says, "Her death really wiped our whole chapter out
and knocked us all backwards. Our chapter has been so much
more aware of letting each other know how we appreciate each
other's friendship." Again, Fripp's thoughtful comments are
right on base and offer a good reminder to all of us, as we
continue to be involved with NSA.
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If you find this article useful, you will enjoy, appreciate
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If you are a business executive who wants to get paid for your
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Joanna Slan is an author and speaker who lives in St. Louis.
Her work currently appears in five Chicken Soup for the Soul
books. Her newest book Storytelling Scrapbooks will be
distributed through Writer's Digest Books.